Are you struggling with allowing men to treat you with respect, kindness and dignity?

The other day, my friend, Cheri Valentine, was working with one of her clients who is having a really difficult time feeling comfortable receiving kindness from a man she is dating. When he comes to see her, he always has her favorite coffee for her. She is so stunned that she overreacts or doesn’t do anything, but it feels really uncomfortable for her.

Can you relate to this? Not feeling comfortable receiving compliments or gifts or offers for help?

So Cheri and her client, Susi, tapped on her discomfort with receiving. What Susi discovered through tapping is that receiving kindness is NOT NORMAL for her, and yet it is exactly what she wants. So the good news is the universe is responding to her request. Susi was able to tap through the different experiences and beliefs that are keeping her from feeling comfortable with kindness AND the discomfort that this did not feel normal to her. She tapped through the experiences that taught her to rely on herself because it was unsafe to expect anyone else to be there to take care of her or help her. The biggest breakthrough for Susi was, “I am creating a new experience of normal, and I deserve this.” Wow, that’s powerful stuff!

I am sharing this with you because I know we have all struggled in some way with what feels normal, what we feel we deserve, and learning to let go enough to actually RECEIVE.

If you’d like to clear the energetic hold that is keeping disappointment, sadness, regret, anger, guilt, and fear – all emotions that are not allowing you to experience NORMAL in healthy ways, then check out Tappy Hour. My friend, and colleague, Cheri Valentine has put together a program that will help move you from shielding yourself to receiving support, love and joy in your relationships! Yes, my friends, this will help you communicate better and draw to you that magnificent mate you are craving.

So, check it out and start moving toward love today.

Start becoming a magnet that is drawing to you an abundance of qualified, committed, loving potential perfect partners to you!


Cheri – a huge THANK YOU for what you have helped me with over our sessions we have had together. The huge breakthrough that we made 2 weeks ago has just opened my eyes to see what has been in front of me for years – love, respect, caring, passionate, friends, family — I know that I bottled things up because I didn’t know what to do or where to go – so bottling it up seemed like the right thing to do – now I see that I was bottling it up and it just made me unhealthy emotionally and I am so grateful that you have helped me to release the hurt, anger, sad feelings that have been around for many years and now I see how I can make life even better for me, my husband, my kids and family and friends. Sometimes you do need to see things outside the box and you need someone to tell you how they see it and it helped me to realize my life would not be as wonderful, events and activities would not have occurred if I didn’t take this path and where I am now — it may not have happened this way. So instead of holding onto the past and hoping/wishing for what I can’t have – I am going to be happy and grateful for what I do have – live life to the fullest and respect, love and care for what I do have. Cheri – Thank you for this journey that we took together – it was so worth it – just wish I found you sooner – but we both know – when it’s meant to be – it’s meant to be!” ~ Staci Jansma,